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This is a discussion on Aik soch within the Urdu Writer's Club forums, part of the Urdu Adab category; zindagi meiN aisa maqaam bhe aata hai jab humain khod bhe nahi pata hota keh hum 'in real sense' aakhir ...
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#1
11-09-2009, 04:33 PM
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zindagi meiN aisa maqaam bhe aata hai jab humain khod bhe nahi pata hota keh hum 'in real sense' aakhir chahte kya hain.HumaiN aisi cheesoN ka t'uaqab kerne ki itni aadat ho chuki hoti hai jo hamari dastras say door hoti haiN.Maloom nahi hum ko wo waqai chahyiye bhe hoti hain ya hum sirf undha dhund in ke peechhay bhaag rahe hote haiN sirf is wajah say ke hum "access denied" ko mentally accept nahi ker rhe hote hum her unreachable tak rasaai chahte haiN.Impossible ko possible maiN convert kerna chahte haiN. In some cases,yeh energy yeh enthusiasm qabl e qader hota hai, insaan ke qadam rukte nahi haiN wo bas fatah kerta jata hai ,big achievements us ka muqadar ho jati haiN.Laiken yeh struggle ,yeh doR her baat aur moqaa ke liye qabl e taqleed nahi hoti.Kabhi kbhaar peechhe hut janay meiN boht kamyaabi hoti hai. laiken sawal yeh paida hota hai ke who will decide for us ,ke kahaN rukna hai kahaN raftar tez kerni hai..aur yahaN shoro hota hai religion ka role.ager mazhab ko aik wasi'e samander maan liya jaye to phir humaiN apni sab khwahishoN ko is meiN phaink dena chahyie ..jo tair ker opper a jayaiN unnhe uTha laiN aur jo doob jaain in ko chhor daiN aur ager bilfaraz aapki aisi khawahish bhe saath doob gayi hai jo aap ko bohut azeez hai laiken mazhab ki kasooti per poora nahi uterti to us ke liye dua karaiN ager Khuda chahe ga to wo kinaare say aan lagay gee ...laiken khood dive ker kay us ko bachana ,mazhab ke halaaf mahaz araai ho ge..anyways apni apni soch hai. Im against all dogmatism ..I feel that I live at two extreme ends at a time. MaiN mazhab ko follow bhe kerti hooN is ke under wrong beliefs per resist bhe kerti hooN. mere liye mazhab aik pinjra nahi jis meiN insaan saari zindagi qaid rehta hai mere liye mazhab aik azaadi hai jis ki koi limits nahi .koi had nahi aur ager mazhab ki koi boundaries haiN to wo nafs aur zameer tak mehdood haiN ..is say aage ke alaaqay meiN humain poori azaadi hai. .. Im not confused about religion..log mazhab meiN Khuda ko talash kerte haiN ..Muslims ,jews, christians, parsi or idol worshippers..sab mazhab ko waseela banaatey haiN khuda tak phonchne meiN...her koi apne aap ko sahi samjh raha hota hai mujhe mazhab per kbhi ikhtilaaf nahi raha ..mujhe hamesha aik he baat ka dhaRka laga raha ke ager Khuda na hoa to...Does He really exist? jab us ke wajood per us ke hone per yaqeen aa jaye to phir sahi mazhab tak rasaai koi mushkil nahi hoti I often used to think ke ager maiN muslim gharaane meiN paida na hoi hoti to phir Allah mere liye kya hota ,kaise hota ...n then i started my journey from zero...Im not fully succeded yet but I have chosen Islam with my own accord. Meri hamesha say yeh problem rahi hai ke maiN apne experiments khod kerti hooN ..mazhab ke moaamley meiN bhe meri yahi aproach hai ..i did it ..apni ouqaat aur basaat ke mutabiq ,mehdood resources ko istmaal ker ke jo meri phonch mei thay .aur is kay doraan maiN boht zehni karb aur azziat se guzri hoon ...but yeh mere ikhyiyaar meiN nahi hai ..n especially in case of religion. Mazhab ke baare meiN I can't be blind believer..maiN nahi chahti ke kbhi koi aisa lamha aaye aur sara aimaan shatter ho jaye yeh bohut sensitive case hota hai..bcoz ager humain janat milne ki basharat hoti hai kuch hasil ker rahe hote haiN to saath saath boht kuch de bhe rahe hote haiN..sacrifice kerte haiN .apni khwahishoN ka gala ghonttay haiN.boht kuchh Allah ke liye chhor bhe dete haiN jo humaiN chahiye hota hai..aur ager end maiN pata chale ke hamara belief wrong tha to kya zindagi kisi saza se kam ho ge ..not at all..duniya meiN he dozakh ka maza aa jaye ga. so kehne ka maqsad yeh hai ke there is no compromise on beliefs...ready made set of instructions ko follow nahi kerna ..here i mean blindly obey nahi kerna ...aik dafa jab dil say yaqeen ho jaye ga to phir jo imaarat rakhi jaye ge uski bunyaad boht mazboot ho ge ...koi sakhti koi aazmaaish us ko hila nahi sake ge.Aur jab zindagi aik dafa hum Us ke naam ker dete haiN to phir apna achcha bura us per chhor dena chahiye..Let HIM decide to take decisions for us.kyonke wo humaiN hum se ziada janta hai ..hamari khwahishaiN aarzi ho sakti haiN situational ho sakti haiN but in the long run ,wo hamare liye soodmand nahi hotiN...so faisla us Zaat ko he kerne dena chahiye Aik aur subject jis per maiN akser sochti hooN, ishq haqeeqi aur ishq majaazi hai..I often think ke in ke beech aisa kya relation hai ke ishq e haqeeqi ko jab bhe kisi worldy ishq ke saath relate kiya jata hai to ishq e majaazi ke saath kiya jata hai..kyoN ?...Konsi similarities haiN jin ki base per aisa kaha jata hai ...Khuda kahaN aur aik mortal man se ishq kahaN ..koi joR nahi banta.. MaiN ne boht socha her relation ko, in contrast to this ishq e haqeeqi ke hawale se jaaiza liya phir samjh aaya ke theek he kehte haiN.Basically ishq hota kya hai..In my opinion ishq aik ishtiyaaq hai aik umeed hai..kisi undekhi cheese ki justajoo meiN jo dard hissay aata hai wo ishq hota hai..ishq aik Khla hai hamari zaat ke under ka hala jis ko hum pur kerna chahte haiN .ishq self perfection ke hasool ka aik zariia hai..Ishq aik takyaa hai jis per ser rakh ker hum apne sab gham bhulaa ker meethi neend sotay haiN .Ishq jaaye panah hai.yeh hamari zaat ki takmeel hai...aur sab se baRh ker ishq aik dhaal hai jis ke peechhay hum chhupna chahte haiN.. Yeh sab mohabatoN ka nachoR hai..ager dekha jaaye to kaainaat ki her shay meiN aik chemistry paai jati hai..Ishq haqeeqi aur ishq majaazi meiN bhe chemistry ka amal dakhal hai...Hamaray ird gird jitni bhe mohabatiN hoti haiN like..maaN,baap,beha n ,bhai,aulaad,shohar ,bewi, friends ,relatives...and so on..to in sab ka mixture hota hai ishq e majaazi ...and mixture meiN ingridients apni chemical properties ko maintain rakhte hain sirf physical state change hoti hai.. ishq e majaazi meiN he hum sab mohabatoN ko "under same roof" feel ker sakte haiN..parents jaisi begharz aur belos mohabbat, bhai behnoN jaisi care ,kbhi bachoN jaisi zid,nasamjhi aur hatdharmi ,dostoN jaisi raazdaari aur wafadaari aur shohar bewi wala pyaar bhe....dukh sukh meiN saath . In short her mohabbat is ishq meiN sama sakti hai..Parents say ,behn bhaaiyon say ,freinds say hum her tarah ki mohabbat nahi ker saktey .her relation ka aik ihktraam aur aik moqaam hota hai...isi liye to ishq e majaazi meiN insaan sab kuch bhool jata hai ..ird gird se behabar ho jata hai ..kuch aur nazar he nahi aata .kuch aur soojhta he nahi..kyonke sab mohabaton,affections ka aik single package mil jata hai... abb aayie ishq e haqeeqi ki taraf ..ishq e haqeeqi meiN aik bilkul nai tarah ki mohabat saamne aati hai yeh baqi mohabatoN ka aameza nahi hota bulke is meiN chemical reaction hota hai ..mohabatoN ki maaheiyat badal jati hai ,state badel jati hai,properties change ho jati haiN aik new product ban jati hai ... Jis ka kisi say moqaabla nahi kiya ja sakta ...jo eternal hoti hai ,immortal hoti hai but remember reactants are same in both cases.. yahaN per jo cheese yaad rakhne ke qaabil hai wo yeh hai ke donoN tarah ke ishq se hum apni zaat ko mukamil kerne ki koshish kerte haiN ..Jis tarah Khuda zaahri tor per nahi dikhta isi tarah yeh ishq e majazi bhe hamari zaat ke under he rehta hai..baahir is ka wajood nahi hai..Is duniya meiN hum sirf mohabatoN ko barttay haiN un se hiz uthaate haiN ..Ishq majazi ho ya haqeeqi ...hamaari rasaai meiN nahi...      |
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#2
11-11-2009, 01:26 AM
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app kahna ya share kiya karna cah rahin hain kuch buhat hi gahrri batain hain yah falsfiyoon walli kahin kahin laga hay kay app kuch kahna cah rahin hain but khulna nahin cah rah kuch dhakay chuppay alfazz main apni batt bayan ki hay but app khul kar har batt kar sakti hain itni gahrai main kabhi soochna ka time hi nahin milla kay aur bhi gham hain zamanay main muhabbat kay siwa........ jitna app nay soocha magar itna zaroor janti hoon kay ALLAH say jis nay ishq kiya us nay pa liya ...........kitnay hi darweesh aur suffi loog guzray hain jinhoon nay khud koo miita kar khuda tak rasai hasil ki any ways likhti rahain kush rahain aur agar mazeed kuch kahan cahain tu mujhay private message kar sakti hain thanks Share
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#3
11-11-2009, 07:42 AM
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Thanks aliyachanda .I appreciate your response cordially. You are really very generous in givin feedback. I wasnt hiding anything really but i just tried to put scattered n dispersed thoughts together. Accumulated thoughts cause frustration so its better to show them the way out .I would love to share things with you whenever i feel like.. Share Thanks to u. |
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