Urdu Poetry Forum

hello every body. I have been thinking about it for almost 4 years now, Why majority of girls say that? Why girls prefer friendship over love? Doesn't infact it goes like that they like to have a boy as a friend, but wait a minute; a BOYfriend?? I am asking about the true love.

What do they really mean by it? Girls can answere this well.
looking forward to ur kind answers.

hmmmmmmmm.......good question brother...

mughay bhi answer chahiyeh es sawal ka....?

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arey kham khiyali hai app ki love ko frndship per preferance nahi di jati but her aik se muhabbat bhi tu nahi hoti naa abb 100 boys aye tu sub se love ho jaye? n frndship nahi? kiya app ess ko theek samjhty hain?
zahir hai pahlye frndship hoti hai insaan ko parkha jata hai tabhi kahen ja kar muhabbat hoti hai.
wase mera puchiye tu mai tu frnds banati he nahi. direct bro call out karti hon jo nahi manye us ko dur se salam.
abb samjh aii logic k why not love n why prefering frndship?

Thank u sis. but... I am confused! U know what... It is the hardest of all for boys to understand a girl.. Why they talk so subtle? Why not straight forward like boys? Some times we think they mean that they do love, at other times it is quite entangled. Any way, thanks again for being the only person on the whole halla gulla community to answer.. Kush raho sis!

Aslam-u-Alaikum,
frienship aik pakizah rista hota hai aur agar is main darar aa jai to kabhi khatum nahi hoti. is liye frindship suchi honi chahiye aur love khuda ki imanut hoti hai. jis ko love ho jai us per mot haram hai.lekin jis mohabut ka taluq sirf husn se ho woh mohabut derpa nahi hoti.mohabut muzbut dilon ko kumzori ki mushq kurwati hai dekhain yeh baaat galut hai k girlz friendship ko ziada prefer karti hai love se ziada.lekin main bhi aik larki hoon lekin main janti hoon jo juzba mohabut ka hota hai woh freindship ka nahi lekin mohabut usi se ki jati hai jis ko insan dil se janta ho us ki zaroraite us ki pasan napasand ka khyal.main personely yehi kehna chaon gi k suchi mohubut aik nayab cheez hai lekin suchi dosti us se bhi nayab cheez hai
Thank you.agar koi pasand kareto mujhe msg kare

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Nice Answer Fizza. but its a silly question,isn't it hsn? har koi friendship ko prefer kerta hai either boys or girls matlab koi bhi yeh nahi chahta ke usey love ho jae?
did you ever think ke aap ko love hona chaey , its must? nahi na
kafi dafa aisa hota hai ke college main university main, relatives ya phir neighbors main office main hum(boys) kisi na kisi lerki main eik friend hi talash kerte hai, so in short every person prefers friendship over love.
and sometimes to aisa hota hai ke na love hota hai na friendship,thats called flirt ;)

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tot jae gi yeh chup chaap zara hone do

dekhain sir flirt bhi koi aam insan nahi karta wohi log kartey hain jo mohabut ka mutlub nahi jantey.sir insan mohabut ki bunyad per hi wajood main ata hai.lekin agar hur insan flrit karne ka soche to friendship aur mohabut ka koi mutlub hi na rahe sir pyar aur dosti ka jawab wohi janta hai jis ne mohabut ki ho flirt nahi
main aap ki baat ko jhutla nahi rahi hotey hain bohut se log lekin unhain ahsas hona chahiye k woh beshuk flirt kar rahe hon lekin dosra insan use pyar samajh le aur us k dil per kia beetey ga yeh flirt kisi ki zindagi bana dega to bigar bhi de ga

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Asalam-o-ALAIKUM,
Hmmmm, i think Fizza nain bilkul sahi kaha hai key Friendship aik bohat hi piyara rishta hai but i dont think so girls friendship per be believe karti hain, i think its very rare key male aur female ki bohat achi friendship ho jis main aap sab cheezain discuss ker sakain jo aik male male sey karta hai aur female female sey karti hai.

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lekin sir baz batain iesi hoti hain jo sirf female male se aur male female se kar sakta hain aap ki baat sahi hai main is se mutafiq hoon

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yes very true, but aisi batain bohat bohat kum hoti hain.

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