Urdu Poetry Forum

Asalam Alaikum, I Agree With Sahil Haidaer If We Like Some One Before Marriage There Is Nothing Wrong .as Sahil Said .it Is Gunah If We Cross Limit.liking Is Different N Love Is Different.love Is Only For Life Partner Islamic Way Also.so Before Marriage Love Is Nothing But Gunah ,no Need To Do It .when U Get Ur Love Allah Gives U Then Y We Should Love Before Marriage. Yah Its True No Need To Tell Husband .sach To Yahi Hai Na Ki They R Now Husband Wife Their Love Is True Love Before All Gunah N All Allah Knows Well So There Is No Need To Tell Him.

thanxxx zeesha jiii. 4 email


n hum to aise hi hain.


c u next time take care.

Sahil Jehan

well

mein nay sab k views para hain. every one is right

haqeeqat yeh hai k kissy ko bhi shadi k baad yeh nahi batanan chhaye k woh pehla kissy oor say love kar chuka/chuky hai
because insan jab shadi karta hai na too woh siraf yeh sochta hai k mein nay jiss say shadi kee hai aab woh siraf mera/mery hai. infact koi bhi yeh bardasht nahi kar sakta k uus ke bewi kissy oor k bara mein socha, aap yeh dekh loo k koi husband jab yeh he bardasht nahi kar sakta k uus ke bewi kissy oor k bara mein socha too woh banda yeh kesa bardahst kar sakta hai k uus ke bewi shadi say pehla kissy oor say love karty the, chaha woh bechary bewi kitny he achi oor wafadar kion na hoo

oor jahan taak yeh baat hai na k husband bhi too shadi say pehla love karta hai na too its true but dear, yaha par aa kar he too hamain pata chalta hai k eik orat eik larky oor eik bewi kitny majboor hoty hai woh sab kuch bardasht kar lay ge uusy husband k saath reh lay gee, uus ke khidmat kara gee uus ke har baat mana gee because uus k pass iiis k ilawa oor koi rasta nahi hai, jab k husband woh bahut kuch kar sakta hai, woh chaha too apni bewi ko usy waqat khara khara divorce day sakta hai, u know its all shits from hudbands, oratoo k saath bahut bura kia jata hai, hum jiss society mein rehta hain, jaha hamarey parwarish hoty hai jaha par hum taleem hasil kar k EDUCATED kehlata hain oor bara PARA LIKHA banta hain yeh he society, yeh he jaga hamain barbad kar dety hai, because we r male ooor believe me mein hamisha yeh he kehta hoon k male is mean, isy waja say mera kaye dost mujh say naraz ho jata hain, par fact is this

i think kafu lamba reply ho gia hai, at the end k bas kissy ko bhi nahi batana chhaye apny shadi say pehla k love k bara mein, issy mein sab ka bhala hai oor agar husband ya wife donoo mein say kissy k pait mein kuch ziada he dard hota hai oor woh sab kuch bool deta/dety hai too he/she will be responsible for the CONSEQUENCES specially wife (keeping in mind the current society/meaness of male)

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~~ meray baad kiss ko sataoo gay ~~

baat yahan sirf larkiyoon ki hi kyon larkoon ka bhi aik maazi hota hai zaroori nahi kai woh bhi jisai chahain usai pa hi lain kai baar woh bhi pyar kisi sai kartai hain aur shadi kisi sai ho jaati hai ye shayad zindagi ka asool hai kai har kisi ko sab kuch nahi milta lekin jo milta hai usai sanwarna aur bigarna hamarai hath mein hai aur phir maazi mein jo hua usai bhool jana hi behtar hai ab ye to koi akalmandi nahi hui kai apnai maazi ko samnai la kar insaaan apna haal aur mustakbil hi barbaad karlai..so jo raaz hai usai raaz hi rehnai daina chahiyai

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i do agree with u that in our society that is happening from centuries. per dekheya na agar aik larki kisi strong background say taulk rakhti ha to vo yah sub chor char jale jae gi, or mere apni family may han larki jo abroad may rahti thi us kay saath na insafi hue vo alag ho gai, kun is leya kun kay vo eduacated thee us ko apnay rights pata thay, khatay han nay par lekh kar bhi jahil to is say bhatar nahi kay hum jahil hi rahen, kun kay par lekh per vahi kamm karna ha vo jail karey ga. log kun bhool jatay han kay larkeyan HOZOR (PBUH) ka salam hoti han, or jab ISALAM nay in dono ko aik say hoqok deyan han to pher hum kun nahi amal karatay............. hum hum aj bhi jahil han

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me aap sabh ki baato se agree hon ...butt i think v should now think k mohabbat humai apne ghar walo se hii sachii karni chahye ....or rahi bat wo mohabbat jo her insan apne life patner ko dena chahta he wo shadi k baad hii real mohabbbat start hoti hia ...well its long discussion abut dis matter i hope every one understand...

Ager to ap ka pyar kisi k liye sacha tha or ap usay na chate hoye b nahi bhula sakte to is k liye behter hai k ap apne husband ya wife ko apni pehli life k baray me bata do kia result niklay ga ye to mujhe b nahi pata han ager wo husband ya wife ap ki feelings ko sanjhe to wo ap ko zaror apna lay gi.

salaam,
u r right,ur views r awesome n nice n u r right saying thnx 4 being a realistic n give the spirit of anthusiasm,,,
this is 4 u,,,,,

salaam,
well aap sahi kahe rahe hain asa hi huta hai,ye asa hi mashra hai magar humary is society ko ksisi na kisi ko to badalna pare ga na ya ye sab ase hi chor diya jaye aap ne kahe diya or hum ne maan liya k urtoon k sath is mashre main sahi nahi huta bcoz ye mardoo ka mashra hai,is liye is par usi ki hukmarani ho sakti hai
mere khyal se hum ne taleem is liye haseel ki hai hum is liye educated hue hain na take apne ache bore k bare main jaan sakin or apne sath kuch bora hune se rook sake ya is liye haseel ki hai k jo jaisa hai jis tarhan ka hai us ko chalne do nahi asa nahi huna chayein asa kar k women khud apne sath or apni ane wali nasloon k sath zulm kar rahi hai or kahte hain zulm karne wala or sehne wala doono hi gunhhagar hain