Male&female Friendship - Page 6

**Secret_** · #76 04-30-2008, 01:29 PM

	Quote:	bluemoon
	haiiin ye uncle kis ko kaha??? aur dimagh bichare ka kia kasoor k uss pe zoor dala ja raha hai main samjha nai ap kia keh rahe ho??? kon si example aur kia hova aj ki generation ko??? g mera bhi yahi khayal tha k mental closeness ki baat ho rahi hai

deemagh hota kis liye hai

well mein usa mein hoti hoon pakistan ka pata nahi..per aaj kal ke log nafs per control nahi rakhte.log bhatak jate hein..

**m.shaheen** · #77 04-30-2008, 03:00 PM

	Quote:	aryan
	Beshaq hum insaan hi hain aur sirf humein hi Ashraful Makhlookat ka darza bhi hasil hai, hum Insanon mein jo baat hai woh farishton mein bhi nahi hai is se aapko bhi ittefaq hoga Insan ki buniyaad hi aisi mitti se rakhi gayi hai is mein uski koi khata nahi hai, rahi baat aapki ki agar insaan usuloon ke itne hi pakke hote to jaanat mein hote, yeh baat to aap bhi janti hai ki Insaan ko jannat se kyon nikala gaya tha aur kaun bahak gaya tha. bat male female ki dosti ho ya male male ki dosti ho ya female female ki dosti ho har jagah dosti mein buniyadi baat hoti hai aitbaar, ehtram aur izzat ek dusre dusre ke liye, hum yahan limitation ki baat nahi karte hain, kyonki jahan pabandiyan hoti hain wahan insan ke andar bagawat paida hota hai. lekin jahan aitbar, ehtram aur izzat hoti hai wahan aisi koi bat nahi hoti hai, baki maashra hum se hai hum maashre se nahi hain, maashra bhi hum insaan hi banate hain. sab se pahle hum khud ko izzat den to dusron ko izzat khud dengen.

aryan jee mujy aapki baat say inkar nai lakin i know dosti aik bhut pakeeza rishta hai aor dosti hi aik cheez hai jo forever hai lakin aap maashre ko b chory hum khud theek hai no problem lakin kya hum logo k ghar waly ya hum logo k husband or wife yhi qabool kary gay jab yhi sab prob aa jay ghi tou kiya aap apni us dost ko jo forever friendship hai chor do gay hai naa dukh ki baat mein yhi sab point rakh k bol rhi thi k jo bhad mein dukh hoga phly hi kyo naa who us dukh say khud ko mhefoz kiya jay rhi limts ki baat yhi zroori nai her insaan aisa sochy khud per humy yaqeen hai to phir koi masla nai waisy kitabi baaton aor hiqeqt main farq to hota hai naa aryan jee thanx ....aapki baaty bhut achi lagi khuda aapko khush rakhy ......

**aryan** · #78 04-30-2008, 04:42 PM

	Quote:	m.shaheen
	aryan jee mujy aapki baat say inkar nai lakin i know dosti aik bhut pakeeza rishta hai aor dosti hi aik cheez hai jo forever hai lakin aap maashre ko b chory hum khud theek hai no problem lakin kya hum logo k ghar waly ya hum logo k husband or wife yhi qabool kary gay jab yhi sab prob aa jay ghi tou kiya aap apni us dost ko jo forever friendship hai chor do gay hai naa dukh ki baat mein yhi sab point rakh k bol rhi thi k jo bhad mein dukh hoga phly hi kyo naa who us dukh say khud ko mhefoz kiya jay rhi limts ki baat yhi zroori nai her insaan aisa sochy khud per humy yaqeen hai to phir koi masla nai waisy kitabi baaton aor hiqeqt main farq to hota hai naa aryan jee thanx ....aapki baaty bhut achi lagi khuda aapko khush rakhy ......

aapko hamari baat se inkar nahi hai is baat ke liye hum aapke shukrguzar hain

sirf dosti hi nahi balki har rishta pakeeza hota hai, sirf dosti hi woh ek rishta hota hai jo ki insan ko qudrat ki taraf se paidaiyish ke waqt nahi milta hai, Khuda ne humein dost banane ki azadi di hai, baki sare rishte to hamare duniya mein aate hi mil jate hain, aapko is bat se bhi inkar nahi kar sakti hain ki sirf dosti ka rishta hi forever hota hai, balki rishte to sare forever hote hain, gar rishte toot bhi jate hain to hum un riston se apna daman nahi chuda pate hain, sirf rishte toot jane se hi to koi haqeeqat tabdeel nahi ho jati hai

shaheen ji agar aapka kirdar pakeeza hai to beshaq aisi koi dushwari nahi aati hai jaisa aap kah rahi hain, main apni aur apni friend ki baat kahoon to aaj hamari friendship ko 15 saal se bhi zyada arsa ho gaya hai aur meri friend ki shadi bhi ho gayi hai lekin aaj tak na to mere ghar walon ne na hi meri friend ke ghar walon ne kabhi is baat ke liye aitraz kiya ki ek larki aap ki dost kaise hai, na hi kabhi meri friend ke ghar walon ne is bat par koi aitraz nahi kiya kyon ki mere ghar walon aur meri friend ke ghar walon ne kabhi bhi ise kisi aur nazar se dekhi hi nahi hai un sab ko hamare kirdar ke baare mein pata hai, woh jante hain ki hum ek dusre ki aur baki logon ki kitni izzat aur ehtram karte hain, aur meri friend ki shadi ke baad meri friend ke sasural wale bhi hamari dosti ke baare mein jante hain aur aaj tak aisi koi baat nahi hui hai, aakhir hum log bhi to isi maashre mein rah rahe hain

limits ki baat karen to main yeh kahoonga agar koi aapka dost hai to aap uske baare mein us ke ghar walon se zyada jante hain aur agar aap us shakhsh se baare mein uske ghar walon se zyda jante hain to aapko us shakhsh par bhi yaqeen hoga, dosti mein yaqeen na ho to dosti nahi ho sakti hai agar kabhi bhi lage ki aap us shaksh par aitbar nahi hai to ap us shakhsh se dil se dosti kar hi nahi sakti hain, yeh alag baat hai ki aapko khud par aitbar hai lekin dosti ke liye apne bhi dosti par bhi aitbar karna zaroori hota hai

main yahan jo bhi baatein kah raha hoon woh khud apne jaati tajurbe par kah raha hoon main koi kitab baatein nahi kar raha hoon main woh hi baat kar raha hoon ji is duniya mein dekh raha hoon

aapne hum jaise naacheez ke liye aisi dua ki, aisi duaon ke liye hum tahe dil se aapke shukrguzar hain aur Khuda se duan karte hain ki woh aapko aapki saari jayaz tamannayen puri ata farmaye

**m.shaheen** · #79 04-30-2008, 05:31 PM

	Quote:	aryan
	aapko hamari baat se inkar nahi hai is baat ke liye hum aapke shukrguzar hain sirf dosti hi nahi balki har rishta pakeeza hota hai, sirf dosti hi woh ek rishta hota hai jo ki insan ko qudrat ki taraf se paidaiyish ke waqt nahi milta hai, Khuda ne humein dost banane ki azadi di hai, baki sare rishte to hamare duniya mein aate hi mil jate hain, aapko is bat se bhi inkar nahi kar sakti hain ki sirf dosti ka rishta hi forever hota hai, balki rishte to sare forever hote hain, gar rishte toot bhi jate hain to hum un riston se apna daman nahi chuda pate hain, sirf rishte toot jane se hi to koi haqeeqat tabdeel nahi ho jati hai shaheen ji agar aapka kirdar pakeeza hai to beshaq aisi koi dushwari nahi aati hai jaisa aap kah rahi hain, main apni aur apni friend ki baat kahoon to aaj hamari friendship ko 15 saal se bhi zyada arsa ho gaya hai aur meri friend ki shadi bhi ho gayi hai lekin aaj tak na to mere ghar walon ne na hi meri friend ke ghar walon ne kabhi is baat ke liye aitraz kiya ki ek larki aap ki dost kaise hai, na hi kabhi meri friend ke ghar walon ne is bat par koi aitraz nahi kiya kyon ki mere ghar walon aur meri friend ke ghar walon ne kabhi bhi ise kisi aur nazar se dekhi hi nahi hai un sab ko hamare kirdar ke baare mein pata hai, woh jante hain ki hum ek dusre ki aur baki logon ki kitni izzat aur ehtram karte hain, aur meri friend ki shadi ke baad meri friend ke sasural wale bhi hamari dosti ke baare mein jante hain aur aaj tak aisi koi baat nahi hui hai, aakhir hum log bhi to isi maashre mein rah rahe hain limits ki baat karen to main yeh kahoonga agar koi aapka dost hai to aap uske baare mein us ke ghar walon se zyada jante hain aur agar aap us shakhsh se baare mein uske ghar walon se zyda jante hain to aapko us shakhsh par bhi yaqeen hoga, dosti mein yaqeen na ho to dosti nahi ho sakti hai agar kabhi bhi lage ki aap us shaksh par aitbar nahi hai to ap us shakhsh se dil se dosti kar hi nahi sakti hain, yeh alag baat hai ki aapko khud par aitbar hai lekin dosti ke liye apne bhi dosti par bhi aitbar karna zaroori hota hai main yahan jo bhi baatein kah raha hoon woh khud apne jaati tajurbe par kah raha hoon main koi kitab baatein nahi kar raha hoon main woh hi baat kar raha hoon ji is duniya mein dekh raha hoon aapne hum jaise naacheez ke liye aisi dua ki, aisi duaon ke liye hum tahe dil se aapke shukrguzar hain aur Khuda se duan karte hain ki woh aapko aapki saari jayaz tamannayen puri ata farmaye

Thanx 4replay bahut achi baat hai k aap apni dost say wafadaar hai kuch log aisa nai sochty kuch apni family problems k samny haar jaty hai yhi sochy samjy bina k who dost jo 5r10saal aapky dukh sukh mein saath tha achank aapko apny sukh k liy aisa dost chorna per gya k aapki zindghi main sakoon rhy .well jaisy mahol mein hum reh rhy hai yhaa really fm friendship psand nai karty mery apny bro ki love merrige hoi hai dono sath hi pharty thy.lakin aj bahi ki baqi dost sirf esliy bahi say ni mil sakti k bhabi ka khyal hai k main hi bv aor dost hoon aapko kyo dost ki zroort hai .life mein tliki tou hoi naa .agr khuda wand kreem her insaan ko itni samj de tou her rishta bhut paiara hai aor pakiza tou almost hai hi.Dunia mein achy insaan achi soch k insaan b hoty hai jo her rishty ki izat ko samjty hai.thanx aapki duao ka aor khush rhiy

**guru449** · #80 04-30-2008, 06:16 PM

Yes offcourse, bohat achi dosti ho sakti ha but it depends ke dono kis jazbay se ek dosray ko treat kertay hain...

**kareem** · #81 05-01-2008, 12:19 AM

	Quote:	bluemoon
	Aslam-0-alaikum Frndz kafi dino se koi thread nai start kia tha to aj mood ban gia. main apna ye thread aik 4nd ko dedicate karta hon mere swal ye hai k kia male aur female ki frndship ideal ho sakti hai?? kia itni strong hoti hai k jaisi male 2 male & female 2 female ki hoti hai??? aur aisi frndship ka end kia hota?? kia aisi dosti mohabbat mein tabdeel ho jati k nai??

nice thread
par ajj kal larkiyan mazak ko dil par le leti hain isi liye mere khayal se female male k sath ziyada tar dosti nahii kar saktii

**mechatronics** · #82 05-01-2008, 08:25 PM

	Quote:	bluemoon
	hmmmm thanx mechatronics laikin mera view point ye hai k male/female ki frndship ideal hoti hai.laikin aik masla hai k females frndship ko aik dam se hi tor deti hain. i think k its strong enough k ap each n every step mein aik dosre ka sath de sakte ho main ap ki third point se agree nai karta. han aisa ho sakta hai mohabbat mein change ho jaye but hawas mein nai.agar mohabbat mein change nai hoti to uss relation mein aik ehtram izat ka jazba hota hai.jis tarah male frnds hamari zaat ka hissa ban jate hain issi tarah female frnd bhi.

hummmm
u have the right to agree or disagree with me
mein khud ehtraam k jazbay ko mohabbat se zaidaa barah samajtaa hoo

per its natural, opposite sex mein humaray liay attraction hotee hai and ...

**mechatronics** · #83 05-01-2008, 08:30 PM

	Quote:	aryan
	Janab Mechatronics ji agar koi aapka friend hai to aap usko sirf friend ki nazar se dekhiye yeh mat sochiye ki woh male hai ya female, agar aap aise karengen to aapne jaise likha hua hai ya aap jaisa sochte hain aisa kabhi nahi hota hai agar aap sincere hain apne friends ke liye. nothing is unnatural if u r honest with ur frnds n their feelings.

aryaan chalein mein friend ki nazar se daiktaa hoon

mein apnay friends se haath millaataa hoon ghalay mmiltaa hoon
tu jab mein sab ko aik hi nazar se daikoon tu phir mein apne female friend jiss k sath mein sincere hoon us k sath b ehsaa he karoo gha

to cut short the argument
hum is baat ko except ker laitay hain k koi larke humaree friend hai
per hum apnee sis k kisi snicere boy friend ko bardaasht kertay hain
mera nahe khiyaal

**kareem** · #84 05-02-2008, 05:04 AM

	Quote:	mechatronics
	hummmm u have the right to agree or disagree with me mein khud ehtraam k jazbay ko mohabbat se zaidaa barah samajtaa hoo per its natural, opposite sex mein humaray liay attraction hotee hai and ...

and ?