Male&female Friendship - Page 5

**bluemoon** · #61 04-30-2008, 08:44 AM

	Quote:	m.shaheen
	hmmmm soching.........

kia socha ja raha hai wo bhi udas ho k???

**bluemoon** · #62 04-30-2008, 08:52 AM

	Quote:	aryan
	Beshaq hum insaan hi hain aur sirf humein hi Ashraful Makhlookat ka darza bhi hasil hai, hum Insanon mein jo baat hai woh farishton mein bhi nahi hai is se aapko bhi ittefaq hoga Insan ki buniyaad hi aisi mitti se rakhi gayi hai is mein uski koi khata nahi hai, rahi baat aapki ki agar insaan usuloon ke itne hi pakke hote to jaanat mein hote, yeh baat to aap bhi janti hai ki Insaan ko jannat se kyon nikala gaya tha aur kaun bahak gaya tha. bat male female ki dosti ho ya male male ki dosti ho ya female female ki dosti ho har jagah dosti mein buniyadi baat hoti hai aitbaar, ehtram aur izzat ek dusre dusre ke liye, hum yahan limitation ki baat nahi karte hain, kyonki jahan pabandiyan hoti hain wahan insan ke andar bagawat paida hota hai. lekin jahan aitbar, ehtram aur izzat hoti hai wahan aisi koi bat nahi hoti hai, baki maashra hum se hai hum maashre se nahi hain, maashra bhi hum insaan hi banate hain. sab se pahle hum khud ko izzat den to dusron ko izzat khud dengen.

nice thoughts aryan

yahan limitation ka matlab pabandia nai bal k hadood hain jin k ander rehte hove ham aik dosre se bat karen aik dosre ka khayal karen.wohi baat jo ap ne ki izat, ehtram etc. in chezon ko ham limitation keh rahe hain
aur ap ne theek kaha k mo'ashra ham se hai.aur ham logon ne hi usse ajakal bahot kharab kia hova hai aur ham hi iss ko sahi kar sakte hain.

**bluemoon** · #63 04-30-2008, 09:00 AM

	Quote:	Crystal_thinking
	*aahOO...Lou sara dhimagh uSe kar dala na...abb kYa hou ga..*

haiiin pehle kion nai dassia k sara dimagh use nai karana c
hun dasso ki karan??

**m.shaheen** · #64 04-30-2008, 09:07 AM

	Quote:	bluemoon
	kia socha ja raha hai wo bhi udas ho k???

bas soch rhy hai kia socha ja rha hai abi es nteejy per nai phnchy chaly phir sochty hai ho sakta hai kuch samj main aa hi jay

**natawan_72** · #65 04-30-2008, 09:08 AM

Ho sakti hay friend ship but jitni male se ho sakti hay utni nhn , coz agar main larka hun or mera friend bhi larka hay to main us se jese baat keron woh bura nhn mane ga , but male and female friendship main soch soch k baat kerni pare gi , shayed bura na man jae ( just a little openion ) or ziada sochne k lie tyme chahiye ye bas jo dimag main aya likh dia

**simple_B.U.T** · #66 04-30-2008, 11:07 AM

	Quote:	bluemoon
	shukria simple B.U.T g! reply karne ka bailamos ne jo baten ki wo hakeekat hai aur ap youn samjh len k khulasa kia iss dunia v hakeekat ka. ap ki baat theek hai aisa sirf frndship mein nai bal k her relation mein hai k agar relations mein KHALOOS na ho to relation ziada dair kaim rehte frndship mein aur agar achi married life guzarni hai to iss main entity yahi k dono mein understanding ho aur dono aik dosre k liye compromisekar saken. mere nazdeek insan ko ye nai dekhna aur sochna chahiye k mera dost male hai ya female. aur dosti chahe male 2 male ho ya female 2 female kafi strong hoti hai aur some times jaise ap ne kaha k same sex mein itni stron nai hoti jitni opposite sex mein hoti hai. main iss baat se 100% agree hon.opposite sex mein frndship base hi relations ki pakeezgi per karti hai.jis relation mein pakeezgi nai hoti uss relation ko ap frndship nai keh sakte aur na hi ziada dair kaim rakh sakte hain. aisa hota hai dosti mohabbat mein change ho jati hai aur frnds ki marriage bhi ho jati hai aur aisa bhi hota k uss mohabbat mein aik ehtram aur izat ki feeling hoti hai jis ka matlab ya end shadi zarori nai

evry thing is all right dost but men es rishta koo kabhi bhi ese mor men nahi morne dongi ye mera nazria hi nahi meri life ka ek rull bhi hai k jo dost hai he will b only my friend not any more
baqi tu har ek ki alag alag soch

**bluemoon** · #67 04-30-2008, 11:23 AM

	Quote:	Secret_
	opposites hamesha attract kerte hein.soo nafs per qaboo rakhne ke liye hud ka hona zaroori hai to ager ideal banti bhi hai to nahi banani chaheeye nature per depend kerta hai. jab bohat dosti ho to bohat chances hein mohabbat ke eesliye nazdeeki eetnee bhi nahi honi chaheeye

g attraction to hoti hai opposite sex ki laikin mere khayal mein same sex mein bhi attraction hoti hai issi attraction ki waja se ham mein frndship hoti hai.

ap nazdeeki kon si keh rahi ho mental closeness ya physical???
agar to ap physical ki baat kar rahi ho to main bhi iss closeness k khilaf hon han mental closeness honi chahiye.

**bluemoon** · #68 04-30-2008, 11:45 AM

	Quote:	Anisa
	salam to allz topic acha laga socha reply b doon mare khayal se ache b hai friendship or nahi b kyon k agar male jise female se friendship kee or per love n then marraige to buhaat kaam gunjaishe hai k woh ose female pay shak na kare other waise buhaat zayada shaak karte hai k es ne mare saaht friendship kee teeh kia pata kise or se b hoo. esliyeh shaadi tak na jaye to acha hai . haan kuch ache hote hain jo aisa nahi sochte . bake male or female ke friendship forever nahi hosakte esliyeh strong b nahi hosakte . bake jahan taak mera khayal hai k male female ke friendship ache hai kyon k jahan male male ko or female female ko kise galat raah se rokne main nakam hote hain wahan male or female ki friendship kamyab hai or ek dosre ka khayal b buhaat rakte hain . bas dil pay na le jaye i m love na kare or agar kare b to per saray prob face karne k liyeh ready rahe . thats all god job n nice topic thanks

jo situation ap ne batai hai wo kam hi hoti hai k after marriage aik dosre pe shak karne wali. pehle to shadi tak baat jati nai agar chali bhi jaye to mere khayal mein wo aik misali couple hoga. baki choti moti baten to hoti rehti hain life mein

m/f mein frndship 4ever ho sakti hai agar m/f ko jo life partner mile wo broadminded ho to.

end pe ap ne achi baat ki hai aik dosre ki care wali. i agree wid this 101%.

aur topic ko pasand karne aur reply karne ka shukria

**bluemoon** · #69 04-30-2008, 11:51 AM

	Quote:	m.shaheen
	bas soch rhy hai kia socha ja rha hai abi es nteejy per nai phnchy chaly phir sochty hai ho sakta hai kuch samj main aa hi jay

matlab???

mujhe bhi ap ki baat samajh nai ai
lagta hai mujhe bhi sochna pare ga explain karen

**bluemoon** · #70 04-30-2008, 11:53 AM

	Quote:	natawan_72
	Ho sakti hay friend ship but jitni male se ho sakti hay utni nhn , coz agar main larka hun or mera friend bhi larka hay to main us se jese baat keron woh bura nhn mane ga , but male and female friendship main soch soch k baat kerni pare gi , shayed bura na man jae ( just a little openion ) or ziada sochne k lie tyme chahiye ye bas jo dimag main aya likh