Male&female Friendship - Page 4

**muskan83** · #46 04-29-2008, 02:14 PM

	Quote:	bluemoon
	Shukria muskan baji k ap ne reply kia wo dost jo hai ap khud pata chal jaye ga jab wo iss thread mein aye ga baki apki kuch baten samajh mein ai hain aur kuch oper se nikil gai ap yahi kehna chah rahi ho na k m/f mein dosti ho sakti hai aur ye k kuch baten same sex se hi discuss ho sakti hain. agar aisa hai to muskan baji to suneen k sex chahe same ho ya opposite some times some baten batai jati hain aur some chupai jati hain. life partner wali baat samajh nai ai. mere nazdeek dosti se strong relation aur koi nai chahe wo opposite sex mein ho chahe same sex mein.aur ap kia kehna chah rahi ho k ap ki life dosti ka relation nai hai....ya ... hai. ap zara apne reply ko dekhen.plz

aapko mri baton ka samjh kun nahi aya ?
any ways men yahi kehnna chati hon k m/f ki dosti ki ek had hoti hai ,, usi had tak tu ye dosti achi hai ,,jese k bilamos ne explain kia tha,, or meri life men bhi dosti se peyara relation koe nahi hai ,, men yahi kuch kehnna chati hon ,,
or rahi baat k ye dosti aage ja kar peyar men badl dene ki tu ,,, men es baak k khilaf hon or rsa honna nahi chahye thats all ,,
ab please mojhe or shrmind na kren k aapko abhi bhi meri bate samjh nahi aa rahi ,,
regardz

**simple_B.U.T** · #47 04-29-2008, 05:14 PM

NICE TOPIC blue_moon je
i wana tell u one thing fisrt of all k bilamos je ne jis andaz men answer dia hai i thing there is no wordz to say he is give us a complet thought wat is this relation mean in our relagion
men bhi is baat se totaly agree with him,likin jahan tak meri soch hai tu men aapko batta deti hon k har rishte ka main mazboot door hoti hai khaloos ye baat ager har rishte men pae jae tu may by sare rishty hi ideal bun jaen.

1. je han do deffrient sex k friendz ideal bun sakte hen agher un dono ki soch ek jesi ho , behave ek jesa ho , and they understand each other .

2. jahan tak strong ka sawal hai kabhi tu esa hotta hai k do sam sex wale etne strong nahi hote jese k diffrend case men hotta hai or ye baat tab hoti hai jub donon men distance ho aur sha'oor ho k wo es relation ship ki pakeezgi ko samjh saken , or wo ye na sochen k u r male and am femal.

3. men es baat se mutafaiq nahi hon k esa honna chahye ,jub k aajkal k doar men esa hotta hi a raha hai k dosti ki larka/larki achhi lagi tu us dosti ko peyar men juld badul di .

**aryan** · #48 04-29-2008, 05:43 PM

	Quote:	m.shaheen
	Islam mein mf ki dosti ko na psand farmaya hai kyo yhi jwab aj hum sab k samny hai jo aj hona tha phly hi khuda wand kream ki zaat ne humy agaa kar diya tha lakin hum insaan hai agr aapny asloon k itny paky aor mazboot hoty tou aj hum zmeen per naa hoty janat main hi hoty mein tou es haq mein hi nai hoon k mf ki dosti ho.insaan limits ki baat karta hai lakin limits hi insaan torta hai .aik shiar araz hai... dil sa bhi koi dost kahan mughe ko mile ga jalta hai mere saath sulagta hai mere saath

Beshaq hum insaan hi hain aur sirf humein hi Ashraful Makhlookat ka darza bhi hasil hai, hum Insanon mein jo baat hai woh farishton mein bhi nahi hai is se aapko bhi ittefaq hoga

Insan ki buniyaad hi aisi mitti se rakhi gayi hai is mein uski koi khata nahi hai, rahi baat aapki ki agar insaan usuloon ke itne hi pakke hote to jaanat mein hote, yeh baat to aap bhi janti hai ki Insaan ko jannat se kyon nikala gaya tha aur kaun bahak gaya tha.

bat male female ki dosti ho ya male male ki dosti ho ya female female ki dosti ho har jagah dosti mein buniyadi baat hoti hai aitbaar, ehtram aur izzat ek dusre dusre ke liye, hum yahan limitation ki baat nahi karte hain, kyonki jahan pabandiyan hoti hain wahan insan ke andar bagawat paida hota hai.

lekin jahan aitbar, ehtram aur izzat hoti hai wahan aisi koi bat nahi hoti hai, baki maashra hum se hai hum maashre se nahi hain, maashra bhi hum insaan hi banate hain. sab se pahle hum khud ko izzat den to dusron ko izzat khud dengen.

**Crystal_thinking** · #49 04-29-2008, 06:49 PM

	Quote:	bluemoon
	g bikul sahi kaha dil to waki nadan hai issi liye main dimagh se kam le leta hon thanx for reply

aahOO...Lou sara dhimagh uSe kar dala na...abb kYa hou ga..

**Crystal_thinking** · #50 04-29-2008, 06:55 PM

	Quote:	bailamos_
	haqeeqat ko haqeeqat samaj ker unn haqeeqatoN ka samna kerna buhut mushkil kaam hai cystal jii ... aaho, we should make it healthy .... sirf kehne se kuch nahii hota .... aap aor hum socheiN k hum ne kabhii aisa kern ekii koshish kii ???.... ...

hummm...Lakeen jub shart yehi hay k face to reality toU iss say bacha bhi nahi ja saKta.....

Jub Inn soChoon ka zikr hamary dil-0-Dhimagh say hOu sakta hay tou impliment kyoon nahi Mumkin...Insan ki dunya Kya haY..Uss ki famiLy aur friends+RelatiVes....Jahan app ka apna maqam hou wahan ka enviOrnment sub mil kaR hee bana rahay hOtay hain....

**Secret_** · #51 04-30-2008, 03:22 AM

opposites hamesha attract kerte hein.soo nafs per qaboo rakhne ke liye hud ka hona zaroori hai to ager ideal banti bhi hai to nahi banani chaheeye
nature per depend kerta hai.

jab bohat dosti ho to bohat chances hein mohabbat ke

eesliye nazdeeki eetnee bhi nahi honi chaheeye

**SundaL Shah** · #52 04-30-2008, 05:37 AM

	Quote:	bluemoon
	Aslam-0-alaikum Frndz kafi dino se koi thread nai start kia tha to aj mood ban gia. main apna ye thread aik 4nd ko dedicate karta hon mere swal ye hai k kia male aur female ki frndship ideal ho sakti hai?? kia itni strong hoti hai k jaisi male 2 male & female 2 female ki hoti hai??? aur aisi frndship ka end kia hota?? kia aisi dosti mohabbat mein tabdeel ho jati k nai??

asalam-u-alekum

first of all thanksn u know 4 what i m saying

ur thread n ques is very meaningfull

apke friend ki taraf se dedication k liye main thanks karti hoon

ya friendship tu asi hi hoti hai k jese female 2 female n male 2 male but ye b hai k jinki life main agar koi "some 1 special " na ho tu hosakta hai k unko apne friend se hi love hojae...it is possible

piyar tu aik bekhudi ka jazba hai jo kahin b kisi se b ho jata hai

friend se b ho sakta hai

but depend karta hai apki feelings par...kia apke dil main kia hai warna tu dosti life time b rehti hai marriages k bad b rehti hai i mean marriage not b/w them with any other person lakin kabhi na love hota hai na dosti tot ti hai but kahi kuch arse main hi piyar ho jata hai

its all about luck b/c love is GOD gifted

lakin agar friends main love hojae friendship k bad tu wo aik successfull relation hoga ok n i m damn sure about that

Anisa · #53 04-30-2008, 06:06 AM

salam to allz

topic acha laga socha reply b doon
mare khayal se ache b hai friendship or nahi b
kyon k agar male jise female se friendship kee or per love n then marraige
to buhaat kaam gunjaishe hai k woh ose female pay shak na kare other waise buhaat zayada shaak karte hai k es ne mare saaht friendship kee teeh kia pata kise or se b hoo.
esliyeh shaadi tak na jaye to acha hai . haan kuch ache hote hain jo aisa nahi sochte .
bake male or female ke friendship forever nahi hosakte esliyeh strong b nahi hosakte .
bake jahan taak mera khayal hai k male female ke friendship ache hai kyon k jahan male male ko or female female ko kise galat raah se rokne main nakam hote hain wahan male or female ki friendship kamyab hai or ek dosre ka khayal b buhaat rakte hain . bas dil pay na le jaye i m love na kare or agar kare b to per saray prob face karne k liyeh ready rahe . thats all
god job n nice topic

thanks

**bluemoon** · #54 04-30-2008, 06:40 AM

	Quote:	bailamos_
	pm ker k bata deta hoon ..... yahan bataoo'n ga to sab kahein gey k shokhii mar raha hoon ....

hahahaha
g main ne kal PM parh k reply kar diye the
sokhi marne mein waise herj hi kia hai

**bluemoon** · #55 04-30-2008, 06:53 AM

	Quote:	m.shaheen
	Islam mein mf ki dosti ko na psand farmaya hai kyo yhi jwab aj hum sab k samny hai jo aj hona tha phly hi khuda wand kream ki zaat ne humy agaa kar diya tha lakin hum insaan hai agr aapny asloon k itny paky aor mazboot hoty tou aj hum zmeen per naa hoty janat main hi hoty mein tou es haq mein hi nai hoon k mf ki dosti ho.insaan limits ki baat karta hai lakin limits hi insaan torta hai .aik shiar araz hai... dil sa bhi koi dost kahan mughe ko mile ga jalta hai mere saath sulagta hai mere saath

bahoot bahoot shukria m.shaheen k ap ne topic ko reply kia

ap ki baat theek hai aur her koi manta bhi hai k islam iss frndship ki permission nai deta. laikin islam khud ko zamane aur halat k mutabik change aur dhalne ki ijazat bhi deta hai han aik shart hai k zamane k sath chalne ki koshish mein insan ko islam ki ta'alimat ko bholna nai chahiye.
limits ki jahan tak baat hai ap theek kehti ho k insan hi banata hai aur insan hi torta hai.laikin sab insan aik jaise bhi to nai hote.agar ap samjhti ho k ap ko khud pe control hai aur ap koi bhi ghalat kaam nai karo gi to theek hai.
ab yahi le len k ap k parents ko ap pe confidence hai to unhon ne ap ko uni mein parhaya aur ap ko paractical life mein ane ki permission di.practical life mein kia hota??? ye mu'ashra hai hi males ka to kia ap apni practical life chor do gi?? nai na?? then ap apne ap ko sahi rakho to mera nai khayal k koi ghalat baat ho.
aisa hi m/f ki frndship mein hota hai agar ap ka dil saaf hai aur ap ki thinking achi hain to koi bhi ghalat baat nai ho sakti.
khush rahen