Urdu Poetry Forum

**humkha1us** · #1 05-25-2006, 11:32 PM

Asslamualikum
Mera sub larkyon say aik sawal ha, or sawal ka javab may kud bhi talash karnay ke koish kar rahi hon per ap log baten kia jab larki ke shadi ho jati ha or vo apni mother ko time vasay hi data ha per biwi ko tora zada takay vo apna bana sakay or is doran us larkay ke Maa apnay ap ko akela or jasa un ko yah mahsoos ho kay un ka Beta un ko tavaja nahi day raha or pher Maa kay dill may aik jalan jo bada hoti ha. kia yah jalan jaez ha?

**singer_zuhaib** · #2 05-26-2006, 11:27 PM

khair mai yai tu nahe janta k jaiz hai ya na jaiz,but yai hai k bethay ko banta

hai k vo bv or maa mai bara ber ka behave karay,maa ka jo rutba hai jo

makaam hai vo us ko usi andaaz say nibhay aur bv k jo haqqooq hain ya us

ko bhe aik achay andaz say nibhay,aur assa mahool paida karay , k maa aur

bv mai itafaak rahay, na k jhagra baazi hoty rahay ,ya tu tu mai mai ho ,yai

sab mard par aata hai ,k vo ghar k nizaam ko kis tarhaan say lay kar chalta

hai,kisi aik ki taraf ziada jhookaoo theek nahe ,maa ko us k haqq aur us ki

ezzat kud bhe karay aur apni bv say bhe karwaey,aur bv ki muhabbat apni

maa k dil mai bhe jagaey, ta k ghar ka mahool aik pur fizah kisam ka bana

rahay,aur esi ka he naam ghar hai ..................

**humkha1us** · #3 05-26-2006, 11:44 PM

Ap nay such hi kha per vo kia ha na aj kal kay parents apni Bateyon ko asi tarbeat datay han kay apnay Husband ko lay kar move ho jao SAS kay sath raho gi to sari zindagi kamm or gulam ban kar rah jao gi

**singer_zuhaib** · #4 05-27-2006, 12:22 AM

haan,instead k parents na bhe kahay tu now a day mostly girls is cleaver .

vo kud he chaty hain k hum single apartment mai rahay,koi strict na hon,aur

mera husband meri har baat mane, aaj kal buss yahee trend chala howa

hai,but agar koi man reasonable hoo tu vo sab control kar sakta hai,but really

sad k aaj kal man bhe buss asay he ho gaey hain na,tab he pir yai sab koch

hota hai................. .........

**humkha1us** · #5 05-27-2006, 01:29 AM

hum kun bhool jatay han kay aj hum jis mokam per han us ke vajha humaray parents ke support ha. hum kasay kisi nae isan kay atay he apni zindagi may bhool jatay ha, kay vo parents jo sub kuch kartay han ap kay leya ap un ko chor jatay han. Aj kal ke to larkeyan bhi itni ajeeb han kay yah nahi sochi kay itna mazbod rishat ko jab us ka husband chor sakta ha to kia vo us ko nahi chor sakta

**'syed'** · #6 05-27-2006, 01:56 AM

probably hai jaez ... per it depends upon the mental framework of a person as well. Some mothers are happy thinking that their son is now married and have family of their own.

**humkha1us** · #7 05-27-2006, 02:07 AM

But do you think we/son shoud let your mom live by her self after she was very carrying all long. I think We can agree that in West its fine but in East I can't believe that its happening in East especially where our parents cant let as go even though we are muture engouh, they can not admit that we are grown. Kasay ap kisi ko chor saktay han, kia us larki may itni akal nahi kay agar yah insan apni maa ko chor sakta ha, to kia vo us ko nahi chor sakta

**naz** · #8 05-27-2006, 11:14 AM

Dono ko apna apna muqam hasil hota hai Maa or biwi ko....jalan jaiz hia..kuke phele Maa ko sara time milta tha...phir is main biwi ka bhi hissa hojata hai...murd agr sahe tarah chale tu yeh jaalan paida hone ki nubat he na aye

**humkha1us** · #9 05-27-2006, 09:19 PM

Per kia aik waqat may dono ko khush rakha ja sakta ha? or yah kis per baat lagao hoti ha kay vo sub ko kush rakhay biwi per jo abhi naee ha is ghar may yah pher shohar per jo maa ko janta ha?