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**humkha1us** · #11 05-28-2006, 02:54 AM

May yah nahi kha rahi kay ap kisi ko choran, per may yah kha rahi hon kay kis ko step lana chaeya Husband ko jo apni maa ko achi tarha janta ha, yah pher biwi ko jo us mahool may abhi new ha.

**merayaanso** · #12 05-28-2006, 03:15 AM

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Originally Posted by singer_zuhaib

khair mai yai tu nahe janta k jaiz hai ya na jaiz,but yai hai k bethay ko banta

hai k vo bv or maa mai bara ber ka behave karay,maa ka jo rutba hai jo

makaam hai vo us ko usi andaaz say nibhay aur bv k jo haqqooq hain ya us

ko bhe aik achay andaz say nibhay,aur assa mahool paida karay , k maa aur

bv mai itafaak rahay, na k jhagra baazi hoty rahay ,ya tu tu mai mai ho ,yai

sab mard par aata hai ,k vo ghar k nizaam ko kis tarhaan say lay kar chalta

hai,kisi aik ki taraf ziada jhookaoo theek nahe ,maa ko us k haqq aur us ki

ezzat kud bhe karay aur apni bv say bhe karwaey,aur bv ki muhabbat apni

maa k dil mai bhe jagaey, ta k ghar ka mahool aik pur fizah kisam ka bana

rahay,aur esi ka he naam ghar hai ..................

Zuhaib bhai..... i agreed you....... aap ne aik complete answer diya hai aur mera nahi khyal k iss mein khuch mazeed add karny ki gunjaish baqi hai

zeesha · #13 05-28-2006, 01:48 PM

well,first thing is that when a son get married ,his love get divided n mother has to accept that first.secondly mother has her place n wife has her placewe cant compare.N ITS TOTALLY DEPEND ON SON HOW HE HANDLES N MANAGES IF HE HIMSELF IS RIGHT N GIVES MOTHER RIGHTS TO MOTHER N WIFE RIGTS TO WIFE NO QUESTION ARISE.

Sahil Haider · #14 05-28-2006, 02:06 PM

salam.

am Sahil Haider 4rm Germany.aur hum new hain yahan.aap ka sawal padha

to socha k hum bhi reply karain yahan.

asal main baat yae hay k maan aur bevi ki mohabat main farq hay.hum agar

yeh cheez zehan nasheen kar lain .aur donon ko apne apne muqam par rakh

kar un se wahi mohabat karain.jo un ka haq hay.to i think k kabhi koi masla

nahi hota.humara tajruaba to nahi.likin shayed jante hain.k aisa ho sakta

hay.

aur maan k liye jaiz nahi hay likin us main ik baat qabil e ghaur hay k kuch

log shadi kar k badal jate hain.aur apna sara waqt bevi ko dete hain.to

is liye masla paida hota hay.anb yeh bhi jaiz nahi hay.

**humkha1us** · #15 05-28-2006, 03:04 PM

Sahil Bhai thanks ap ka kay ap nay meray form ko read kia asal may may kud new hon yahna per
may ap ki baat per serf itna kahon gi kay aik larki jo sub kuch chor kar ati ha us ko agar shoor ka time na melay to vo inscure feel karti ha, or maa ko or dosray logon ko space dani chaeya kun kay doo naee zindagian suro ho rahi hoti ha. vo apnay ap may grow hona chati han.
by the way mera tajurba nahi ha per ha bhi

Zeeshan bhai ap ka bhi thanks or ap nay jo kuch kha such kha ha

**Diya** · #16 05-28-2006, 09:57 PM

well sawaal aap nai acha kiya hai...aur mein itna kahoongi kai donon ka makaam apni jaga hota hai maa ka bhi aur biwi ka bhi...ye sirf hamari soch hai jo hamein ghalat rasta dekhati hai...ye sach hai kai aik larki aap kai ghar mein nai ai hai to usai zahir si baat hai apnahiyat ki thori si madat ki zaroorat parai gi adjust honai mein sab kuch samajhnai mein aur is mein mera nahi khayal kai sirf larkai ko help karni chahiyai balkai khud us larki ki saas ko bhi ye baat samajhni chahiyai aur us ki help karni chahiyai isi tarhaan us larki ko bhi is baat ka ehsaas hona chahiyai kai usai ghar ko kaisai rakhna hai aur rishtoon ko kaisai nibhana hai..magar agar jalan mehsoos hoti hai to phir ye baat ghalat hai kyon kai yahan kasoor hamari soch ka hai jis par chal kar choti sai choti baat bhi khataknai lagti hai..

**humkha1us** · #17 05-28-2006, 11:54 PM

Diya ap nay such hi kha ha , kay har kisi ka apna mokam ha apna rutba ha. or kisi nay kha ha na kay aik boray(OLD) ka demag aik bachay say kam nahi hota.

**'syed'** · #18 05-29-2006, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by humkha1us

May yah nahi kha rahi kay ap kisi ko choran, per may yah kha rahi hon kay kis ko step lana chaeya Husband ko jo apni maa ko achi tarha janta ha, yah pher biwi ko jo us mahool may abhi new ha.

kisi ko bhi koi step nahi lena chahiyeh kiyoun keh husband ko apnay parents ko nahi chorna chahiyeh aur uski wife ko chahiyeh keh woh jis tarha apnay parents ki respect karti hai waisay hi ussay apnay husband kay parents ko respect karni chahiyeh ..

and same is the case with the husband, he should respect his wifes parents... that is what the relationship is all about. not just husband and wife !!

**humkha1us** · #19 05-29-2006, 12:26 AM

FAKHAR bhai aj kal ka vo waqat ha kay larkay kay parents apni ana kay agar juktay nahi, vo larkay valay honay kay natay un ke naak hamesha unji rahti , bhae mere aik baat samj say bala tar ha kay parents yah kun bhool jatay han kay vo jasa dosray ke bati(OLAD) kay saath karen gay vasa un ke olad kay saath bhi ho sakta ha

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