Originally Posted by jahil

well

mein nay sab k views para hain. every one is right

haqeeqat yeh hai k kissy ko bhi shadi k baad yeh nahi batanan chhaye k woh pehla kissy oor say love kar chuka/chuky hai
because insan jab shadi karta hai na too woh siraf yeh sochta hai k mein nay jiss say shadi kee hai aab woh siraf mera/mery hai. infact koi bhi yeh bardasht nahi kar sakta k uus ke bewi kissy oor k bara mein socha, aap yeh dekh loo k koi husband jab yeh he bardasht nahi kar sakta k uus ke bewi kissy oor k bara mein socha too woh banda yeh kesa bardahst kar sakta hai k uus ke bewi shadi say pehla kissy oor say love karty the, chaha woh bechary bewi kitny he achi oor wafadar kion na hoo

oor jahan taak yeh baat hai na k husband bhi too shadi say pehla love karta hai na too its true but dear, yaha par aa kar he too hamain pata chalta hai k eik orat eik larky oor eik bewi kitny majboor hoty hai woh sab kuch bardasht kar lay ge uusy husband k saath reh lay gee, uus ke khidmat kara gee uus ke har baat mana gee because uus k pass iiis k ilawa oor koi rasta nahi hai, jab k husband woh bahut kuch kar sakta hai, woh chaha too apni bewi ko usy waqat khara khara divorce day sakta hai, u know its all shits from hudbands, oratoo k saath bahut bura kia jata hai, hum jiss society mein rehta hain, jaha hamarey parwarish hoty hai jaha par hum taleem hasil kar k EDUCATED kehlata hain oor bara PARA LIKHA banta hain yeh he society, yeh he jaga hamain barbad kar dety hai, because we r male ooor believe me mein hamisha yeh he kehta hoon k male is mean, isy waja say mera kaye dost mujh say naraz ho jata hain, par fact is this

i think kafu lamba reply ho gia hai, at the end k bas kissy ko bhi nahi batana chhaye apny shadi say pehla k love k bara mein, issy mein sab ka bhala hai oor agar husband ya wife donoo mein say kissy k pait mein kuch ziada he dard hota hai oor woh sab kuch bool deta/dety hai too he/she will be responsible for the CONSEQUENCES specially wife (keeping in mind the current society/meaness of male)