True love is only for Allah. Through this love, we love our parents, children, spouse, freinds and others. If we don't love for the sake of Allah, a mother shall never be able to put up with her children, a wife may never be patient with the husband and vise versa. Most important is that we don't love the mortal and overlook the Eternal (Immortal). In other words, if the heart becomes so set on a certain person who is mortal of course, in case this person disappears for any reason, we will certainly collapse. While the Immortal is Still and Shall remain there forever. So why should we waste our emotions. I am not calling for rigid relations.

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The Day of Resurrection draws near. None besides Allâh can avert it, Do you then wonder at this recital (the Qur'ân)? And you laugh at it and weep not?
[Surah An-Najm: 57-60]